梦想❤决定

我常在想

当一个人对于自己的目标

很模糊很不明确时

那就像周星驰在某套戏说的

人没有梦想

根本和咸鱼没两样

咸鱼翻身

是说明了它要逃脱了

还是它背部的肉被吃光了

人生当中

我们花了最多的时间也就是选择

在顾虑它的后果

要想这个那个

往往都把自己该做的决定延后了

我们总为了一点小事纠结了很久

结果浪费了不少时间和心力

的确无可否认的是

我们是贪心

什么都想要

可结果也就会是

时间荏苒 不再等待

回头的都是后悔

机会是留给珍惜的人

计划永远赶不上变化

但没有计划

永远就只是度日如年

等待的

也只不过时间的流失

这当然也不是我要的生活

工作完毕就回家休息睡觉

一觉起来又是去工作

这样有多乏味

就犹如机械人般

忙完充电 充好电继续忙忙盲

曾几何时

现在的自己

已变得感觉不想自己了

挑战的一切

都是一种很好的磨练

有时候

真的很好奇

有了梦想 有了目标

却因为某些因素

被迫搁着了之后

还是会坚持下去么

的确 我没有任何答案

因为我就像那条

断了头的鱼

明知道头在何方

却不知怎么游过去

人往往就是必须在梦想和现实中

做出一个抉择

但也有可能这两者都共处

不过主要的还是时间

想得多 说得亮

没有实际行动来得更强

不做 就停在原地

God closed a door and will open another window for you

没有任何问题没有解决办法

不是路到了尽头

而是该转完了

人所谓的成功

赢得不是在起跑点

而是赢在转折点

只要多一点耐心

多一点恒心

多一点信心

多一点毅力

事情得到的不只是赞扬

还是一种经验

只要你做对了决定

开的那扇门

一定有很多曙光

快乐的一切也只不过

源自于你自己的心态

保持乐观乐观乐观观❤

加油吧维妮斯❤

BY: MS VENICE

要相信自己♥

人生最痛苦的事

莫过于

变成自己很讨厌的那种人

的确

我真的很不喜欢那种

人生没有目标 没有事业的

可是 最近我就是这样

对自己的一切

都觉得好不熟悉

感觉我的世界

不属于我 就像出走了灵魂般

感觉的确蛮痛苦的

过往讨厌的一切 

都出现了

那种感觉 很不是滋味

什么都做不成

什么在心的都不在手心

就像海市蜃楼吧

蛮不实际的失落感

人就是这样

同样的话

说服得了别人

却说服不了自己

是的

机会是留给会争取的人

所以真的很想要的事与物

千万不要犹豫

不然即使是迟几秒

也是太迟了

那就真的叫鱿鱼了

炒鱿鱼这样啦

我有个好朋友告诉我

不要急于一时

而随便做决定

却有可能会错失一切最适合自己的

但...其实人总会有些选择性困难

花了一些时间让自己心安定回来

就在继续吧

我不信 自己不可以

或许就是那句

老天不是对你刻薄

而是把最好的留到最后才给你

最重要的也就是要对自己有信心

即使遇到的麻烦多困难

都要越挫越勇 =）

谁会在意这一切的一切

有些人在乎结果

有些人在乎过程

那都不重要

重要的是学习到了什么

是否很开心呢

有些事与物的成败

在于你的信心

你给别人的感觉

虽然不是每件事都可以自己决定

但可以尝试去改变

不要认定

不要以为

那只会让自己的机会溜到别人口袋里

无论在什么情况下

不要吝啬你的微笑

如果你觉得喘不过气

何不去做自己喜欢的事呢

有些时候啊

我还蛮欣赏我一个好姐妹的性格

她呢 很享受慢活的人

就好像觉得 

chance is destined to be given to you 

if not...then u need to wait for ripe opportunity moment

人要忍得住气

才能成大事

就是这个意思的

如果真的不喜欢又或是很后悔

现在的状况

那只能说三到五年前

你做错了决定

如果不想在未来三到五年后悔的话

现在就计划吧

做人就是自己喜欢就好

不要太介意别人怎么想

人生是自己的

要有自己决定哦

Dont feel yourself is such vulnerable 

Just be confident 

Dont simply tell yourself all of those are 

impossible

If that's, why dont make it be possible

It just like acne vulgaris 

you can just left it or treat it...

Only you have the right

to make all the decisions 

in the present ,future

dont freak out easily

BY: MS VENICE♥

struggle for my days...

Hi...my blog =)

Hi...my new day again...

I should appreciate that I'm still alive..

ya...that I had the HPV vaccine...

at the first...I'm scare of pain but once I was injected

well...no any special feeling...

It's just like bitten by ants..hmmm..

like a little peanut ya=)

but once I sit and rest...

I could even feel dizzy...

it's just a start I knew...

but it happened in seconds...

hard to predict that it's damn horrible moment

for me and my friends around me...

hmmm...I can't describe to let you all to imagine

that situation...

I told Kai Xin that I felt dizzy and

she was finding place that can rest properly for me

but at that time...

my heart beat was very slow and the impulse

seem like can't be conducted 

then almost cause heart paralyzed 

I was suffering from chest pain and breathing

even a little amount of air

she tried to use her hand to support my body

(she was using her injected hand =( so touching my friend)

I can't breath in...seem like I gonna GONE...

at the moment

there was nothing inside my mind except

''what the hell!I'm regret to have this injection!''==

(unlike in the drama...those people that think of their beloved)

that might cause me die or what...

I struggled for getting just a bit more air

to SURVIVE

at that time

I can't abide anything else except my luck

I didn't pray for god

but myself

Ya...it's true...I was out of control I knew

I started to ''roar'' and twisted my body

to comfort my blood and organs

but FAIL

me friends asked the nurse come

but it's no uses...

I totally didn't know what she was talking about

nothing but I did is struggling

(SORRY for causing any inconvenience or dread for all my friends)

that time...my hero was coming XD

Caryn she was hugging me to bilik rawatan...

although I had no more energy to open my eyes

but I still can hear what all the people were talking about

anyway...thanks my girls... =)

I don't know why the HPV vaccine cause 

such a serious problem for me

I just wonder that

should I have the second one

hmm...it's a good question 

It's a damn horrible memories in my life

I think it might be my phobia in my future lifetime

I don't hope to suffer this kind of bad damn things again

or my lifespan will be shorter==

and my brain will be blanker and blanker

kena frightened !!hahah

well...I'll take good care of myself

thanks all my friends and my teachers

that concern about me =)

and hope our CICILIA also take care your body=)

Life is short

don't do anything you don't like

or you will suffer in your life

and just do whatever you like

that's all nothing much

HPV vaccine is quite important to ah girls =)

Human papillomavirus (HPV) that shows no symptoms 

and leads to cancer of cervix, vagina ....

(pls check more details online)

pls take note that if you haven't injected this vaccine 

for your healthy 

for your happiness

BY:VENICE GUI

Our Food step❤

life is fulled of undesirable and uncompleted tasks...

that's why I'm busy for nothing recently..

hahahaha...oh my stupid reasons...

well...just leave everything a side 

my hubby boy told me that...

no matter what's going on

just move on if you feel unhappy !

better don't force yourself to do whatever you don't like

no one will think of you...

even though you do everything just for the sake of them

just 'oh no, feel like shit ' right?

it's ok Venice...

life isn't all about you what...

lets have a positive mindset and great prospective 

well...before gaining back my energetic aspiration

We should have to fill our stomach first!

for me, euphoria is enhanced by having as many as

desserts I can! muahahhaha

from Venice's survey shows that

desserts can soothe our feeling from grief 

I'm not bragging!hahaha

let me to share my exhilaration to you all

but introduced in mandarin(chinese)

This is one of my favourite desserts------芒果沙冰 mango ice

店名:甜甜

位于:tebrau (aeon tebrau附近,店隔壁是凤姐nasi lemak)

venice评语:

芒果冰入口即化

颗粒咬在口里会喷出来\(≧▽≦)/

太好吃了 ❤很值得来尝尝!

一级棒啊~~

*每次一不开心 我的MR HO 就会带我去这儿吃

  就像仙丹这样 叮!烦恼不见lor 

 再来是我新发现的 vanila creme brulee!

▶moonlight

venice评语：

对我来说 焦糖部分有点甜

不过喜欢吃甜的朋友们

应该会超爱的❤

蛋的部分 弹滑柔顺

味道恰到好处 让味蕾享受一番

 接下来这道呢

是我和我的Mr Ho庆祝10th Month的晚餐

对于小适量的我

还挺多的╮(╯▽╰)╭

位于:the store sentosa 的 o'nine lounge grill bistro

*groupon 网买来的套餐!wow!

其实价格很便宜哦!

有两道开胃菜

(ermmm 本人见识得少不知叫什么名 )

是Mr Ho 负责点的

主菜是海鲜意大利面 和 海鲜pizza

吃完后

我们也变海鲜了( ⊙ o ⊙ )哈哈哈哈

venice评语:

 我们去的时候客人还算不是很多

不过出菜的速度有点怠慢

结果老板(看起来就像是)就请吃薯条

服务态度 赞!

好可惜的 喉咙痛

没有得到MR HO的批准

啊~~~ （¯﹃¯）口水

 只偷吃了一点点....

不过对于食物的评价

我觉得还好(因为本人我不是很喜欢那个味道)
MR Ho还觉得不错下
不过算是挺丰盛的

气氛还不错...值得去享受翻
让肚子充实自我

是否饿了?

感觉香味扑鼻?

哈哈哈哈~别怀疑

饿了就去吃!

暂且介绍到此...

谢谢我身多兼职的mr ho❤

是boss 又是driver 

happy hungry period!

By:Ms Venice

RESPECT

Communication and behavior
are very important to link two or more people together
but due to the different custom
it is easy to make people feel like being discriminated
so, the best solution is RESPECT

this is one of the moral value that
I learnt from my biology research trip =)
ya...that's right
no matter what happen in the situation
it's alternative
u should respect urself and
respect others too
u are nt the only one in this world
u cant be selfish that just think about urself only
or U WILL SUFFER FOREVER
if u think in ur own way

There is a good saying from my best friend
'when u get along with others in school and outside,they are totally different. We can understand their characteristic and personality very well within those days '
yes, it's true.
Being a mature person is not very difficult
but behave like mature people is a tough task

no matter what happen in ur life
u should learn how to abide all the challenge
even though u have suffered for a long time
try to find out what's the problem statement

most of the problem is from U
better try to understand ur mind and ur behavior
did u show ur respect to others?
yessssss....it's a good question

everyone has his own mindset
some people think that
'I wont live under other people's sight'
that's no wrong in this case
but it will be a great mistake
if u never think about the existence of moral value

we're living in group and nt alone
therefore,
we have to think all the consequence of making troubles to
our friends or others
and even put urself into others' shoes to feel their heart
and experience
NEVER EVER try to think that
others Must follow what u say
or force people listen to u
this is not respect
it's try to compel others to accomplish
what u demand or order

u should beware ur tone when u talk
u should respect other even though it's a peanut case
being thoughtful to these details
to make ur life easier

I admit that I'm not a very good-nature and not thoughtful person
I can be provoked and agitated easily
so, I try to improve myself to respect all people in my life

I will try harder to get rid of my bad habits
from my self-searching and others' advices
I hope that my friends wont reproach wat I had done wrongly
and hurt u all
to forgive that if I didnt respect u properly
and made lots of troubles when I wasnt mature yet=)
thx Q

by:ms venice=)